It Just feels wrong
he's only 53 and he's living in this home
I know he has the best of care
but that still doesn't make it fair
They say it comes from Momma's side
and thats the way her Daddy died
but its a damn cruel twist of fate
to watch her son go thru the same
She collapsed into an empty chair
and ran her fingers thru her hair
tears were streaming down her cheeks
a sheet of paper lay across her knees
she said this fell out on the floor
when I pulled his dresser drawer
then she whispered as she handed me his note
read what your brother wrote
C:
I hope this letter gives you peace
don't waste any time on grief
There's no guilt in what you did
there's nothing to forgive
V:
It chilled my soul
the implications rocked me to the bone
He never let on that he knew
but I was staring at the proof
it was more than I could stand
so I reached for momma's hand
and when I saw her by the window holding him
his words hit home again
C2:
I hope this letter give you peace
don't waste any time on grief
There's no guilt in what you did
I won't remember what you did
you only did what you had to
and there's nothing to forgive
Ron Kauffman \ 2008
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My wife works as a caregiver in an assisted living environment. Her biggest concern for the families of these people is the guilt many of them carry in their...
My wife works as a caregiver in an assisted living environment. Her biggest concern for the families of these people is the guilt many of them carry in their hearts for having to put a loved one into such a place. I wrote this song, hoping to show her what I personally would feel and say if it ever comes to a point in my life when she has no choice but to do the same to me. She took a copy of this song to work, and many of the family members now have a copy of their own. I pray it gives them some kind of peace.
06/05/18 09:47:44AM @bamil:
Excellent one Ron. Wonderful lyrics and superb track, Love it 🔊🎸🎶🎵🎶🎶🌞
05/30/18 07:10:48PM @ronbowes:
Sad tale delivered with style
11/18/13 02:00:59PM @brett-service:
Powerful lyrics Ron, and I really like the chord intervals. Enjoyed the listen.
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I usually say, "Simple put, I'm a songwriter". I have a very hard time writing a bio because I tend to write my life in songs. If there's...
I usually say, "Simple put, I'm a songwriter". I have a very hard time writing a bio because I tend to write my life in songs. If there's something people want to know about me, they need only listen to my music. To me, what I've been and done in the past isn't that interesting, but I suppose the things I've done and been through have made me what I am today. My influences are very apparent, CSNY, Neil Young, Willie Nelson, Simon and Garfunkel...etc. However, even though they were huge influences, I've spent my entire life trying to be myself, and I believe that stands out in my music. I don't write what's typical, I refuse to write what others think I should, and say I need to write to be accepted in the industry. If acceptance means being something I'm not, then I'll pass on being accepted.
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I spent twenty years of my life performing live. I've played in the worst venues and some of the best. I've performed for large crowds at festivals, and no crowds in local bars! No matter where I performed or for how many, I always did the best I could to make those listening have an enjoyable experience. When my children were born, I decided to put my dreams of success aside until they were grown. Twelve years ago, I restarted my attempt at success, only this time I was determined to do it as a "songwriter", instead of a "singer/songwriter" After twelve years of chasing what I've deemed an impossible goal in an industry so hung up on "safety", meaning the powers that be fear change so much, they refuse to open their ears to the incredible music being created by "Indie artists", I've decided to go Indie myself. and perform my own music once again. At sixty-two years of age, I've had plenty of people tell me I'm crazy, but since I already knew that, why should I listen to them. I started out as a single artist, and I've decided to finish my life the same way!
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I don't know if what I have to say through music means anything to anyone else in the world, but I do believe I have something to say and my hope is that I can say it in such a way that someone, somewhere, will get it, enjoy it, and know that there's at least one person in the world, that knows what they feel, and is willing to express that feeling in a way they can relate too.
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This is no doubt the longest winded bio I've ever written. I know it doesn't say what some want to read about, but it's what I feel the need to share with everyone.
Excellent one Ron. Wonderful lyrics and superb track, Love it 🔊🎸🎶🎵🎶🎶🌞
Sad tale delivered with style
Powerful lyrics Ron, and I really like the chord intervals. Enjoyed the listen.